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How do I handle replies to cold emails and book the next step?

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Written by Bourhan Sbalbal
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Stage: Live

Owner: CS

Last updated: 2025-12-19


TL;DR

  • Once a prospect replies, you’re no longer cold emailing—you’re managing an active conversation.

  • Your goal is to keep momentum, deliver value, and move to the next step (Loom or call).

  • Loom videos are one of the highest-converting reply-handling tools.

  • Even “Not interested” replies can be turned into useful data—or conversations.


When you’d use this / Why it matters

Most deals aren’t won by the first cold email—they’re won by how you handle replies. Poor reply handling leads to stalled conversations, long back-and-forths, or lost opportunities. This guide shows how to respond clearly, confidently, and efficiently once a prospect engages.


The goal of reply handling

Your goal is not to convince someone in one message.

Your goal is to:

  • Keep momentum

  • Provide value

  • Make the next step easy

  • Avoid long email threads

In most cases, the “next step” is:

  • Watching a Loom video, or

  • Booking a short call


1) Responding with a Loom video

A Loom video is one of the most effective ways to convert a reply into a booked call because it:

  • Proves you did real research

  • Shows expertise visually

  • Delivers value before asking for anything


Loom video structure (3–4 minutes max)

1. Personalized greeting (≈15 seconds)

“Hey [Name], appreciate you replying. I made this quick 3-minute video going over [specific value].”

2. Establish credibility (≈30 seconds)

  • Who you typically help

  • Relevant results or clients

  • Keep it short and specific

3. Deliver value using the “3 Things” approach (≈2 minutes)

For each point:

  • Show the issue on their site/assets

  • Explain why it matters

  • Give a clear, concrete fix

4. Clear CTA (≈15 seconds)

“If this was helpful, does [Day] at [Time] or [Day] at [Time] work for a quick call to discuss implementing this?”


Loom recording best practices

  • Under 4 minutes

  • Show their actual site or assets

  • Good lighting and clear audio

  • Speak confidently and steadily

  • Deliver real value (not fluff)


Sending your Loom video (best delivery method)

Key rules

  • Use an embedded Loom thumbnail (not a plain link)

  • Add timestamps/highlights

  • Offer 2 specific time options

  • Include a calendar link as backup

Loom delivery email template

Subject: Custom [service] audit for [Name] at [Company]

Hi [Name],

Here’s the custom video I recorded for you—just click the thumbnail to watch.

At [timestamp], I cover [specific insight], and at [timestamp] I show how to [specific improvement].

Does [Day 1] at [Time] or [Day 2] at [Time] work for a quick call to map out the full step-by-step?

If those don’t work, you can grab a time here: [Calendar Link]

— [Your Name]


If they don’t respond after the Loom

Follow up every 2–3 days, short and direct:

Hi [Name],

What did you think of the custom video?

Does [Day] or [Day] work for a quick call?

— [Your Name]


2) Reply handling cheat sheet (common scenarios)

Use these templates as a base and adapt them to your offer.


Positive replies

A) “Yes, send the video / more info”

Hi [Name],

Great to hear from you—I’ll send the personalized video right over.

After you watch, happy to answer any questions or we can book a quick call to discuss implementing this for [Company].

Does [Day] or [Day] work for you?

Best,

[Your Name]


B) “Interested, but I have questions”

Hi [Name],

Thanks for replying—happy to clarify.

[Answer their questions briefly and clearly.]

Would it help to do a quick 15-minute call so I can walk you through exactly how this works for [Company]?

Best,

[Your Name]


C) “Let’s book a call”

Hi [Name],

Perfect—here are a few times that work for me:

  • [Day] at [Time]

  • [Day] at [Time]

  • [Day] at [Time]

Or you can book directly here: [Calendar Link]

Looking forward to it,

[Your Name]


3) Objection handling templates


“We’re happy with our current lead gen”

Hi [Name],

Totally fair—many teams feel that way.

What we often see is adding this alongside what’s already working creates a safety net, especially when referrals or paid channels slow down. It’s not about replacing anything—just adding consistency.

Worth a quick 15-minute call to see if it could complement what you’re already doing?

Best,

[Your Name]


“We don’t have budget right now”

Hi [Name],

I hear you—budget timing matters.

This tends to work even in tight quarters because it’s designed to pay for itself quickly if the outcome is achieved.

Would it help if I sent a short Loom showing the ROI math so you can evaluate it without committing to anything?

Best,

[Your Name]


“We tried this before and it didn’t work”

Hi [Name],

That makes sense—and it’s common.

Usually when it fails, it’s because the approach is too generic or not tailored to the ICP. The difference here is we focus on [your differentiator] and build it around how your buyers actually decide.

Open to seeing the exact approach that’s working for similar companies?

Best,

[Your Name]


4) Follow-ups after key events

They watched the video but didn’t reply

Hi [Name],

Saw you had a chance to watch the video—did you have any questions about how this could work for [Company] specifically?

Happy to clarify anything or map out next steps.

Best,

[Your Name]


They agreed to a call but no-showed

Hi [Name],

No worries—I know things come up.

Want to reschedule for [Day] or [Day]?

Best,

[Your Name]


They asked to be contacted later

Hi [Name],

Following up as requested.

Is now a better time to discuss how we could help [Company] with [specific outcome]?

Best,

[Your Name]


5) Handling “Not interested” replies

A “not interested” reply is not always a dead end—it’s a signal.

How to handle it

1. Treat it as data

They opened and replied. Your message landed.

2. Don’t shut it down immediately

Unless they say “unsubscribe” or “don’t email me again,” you can follow up politely.

3. Ask for quick feedback (humble + curious)

“Thanks for the quick reply—can I ask: is this not relevant to your role, or is it the way I framed the offer? I’m testing a few approaches and your feedback would really help.”

This often leads to:

  • “Talk to my colleague instead”

  • “We already have a vendor”

  • “We don’t see value in X”

4. If they engage, ask for clarification

“Would you be open to me walking you through the offer quickly so you can tell me where it misses?”

5. Reset intent briefly (if appropriate)

“I was intentional with who I reached out to because I believed this solves [problem]. Thanks for the honesty—it helps tighten my targeting.”


Expected outcome

You should now be able to:

  • Handle replies confidently and quickly

  • Use Loom videos to convert interest into calls

  • Navigate objections without stalling momentum

  • Turn replies—even negative ones—into useful signals


Callouts

If ListKit runs campaigns for you (DFY Managed Program)

What ListKit handles:

  • Recommended reply frameworks

  • Loom strategy guidance

  • Objection-handling best practices

What you should do:

  • Respond quickly to replies

  • Record Looms when prompted

  • Book calls once value is delivered


If you use ListKit self-serve (DIY)

Steps you should follow:

  • Respond within 24 hours

  • Default to Loom for warm replies

  • Keep replies short and directional

  • Always propose a clear next step


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